We'll talk, online and/or in person, as often as we need. Gradually, between us, we'll build up a plan of everything that will happen - from entrances, to music, to words, to rings, to different symbolic gestures, to where we'll all stand. I'll learn about your life and your values and write a ceremony that tells your story and guides you through making your promises to each other. You'll be in complete control and will always be able to edit or change anything... and, if you want, I can keep bits of it as a surprise for you. We'll often meet up at the venue the day before to check everything's ok. And then, of course, I'll come on the day with my best speaking voice and conduct proceedings!

Ewan

Experience:

13 years

Weddings:

100+

Everything to make your ceremony and wedding day extra special.

Roger D.G.

Experience:

25 years

Weddings:

100+

My Bespoke Ceremony package includes everything you need to make your wedding ceremony extra special:

Confirmation that your wedding is the only booking I will take on your chosen date
Unlimited contact by phone/video chat or email, and up to two in-person meetings, dependent on distance from Sussex* (excluding a walk-through rehearsal)
As much, or as little, advice and guidance on writing your own vows as you require
Assistance with choosing appropriate readings for your ceremony, if you wish
Advice and guidance during the planning process on the logistics and choreography of your ceremony
A beautiful, bespoke, professionally-written ceremony
Handmade booklets for your vows and readings, bound with handmade paper and decorated with silk ribbon to match your theme and colour-scheme

Option to include one of the following symbolic elements:

Hand tying, including up to three cords and charms​, chosen to match your theme and colour-scheme

Unity candle ceremony, including two taper candles and unity candle, all personalised with your names and date of your wedding

Sand ceremony, including up to three colours of sand (chosen by you), and appropriate vessel

Commemorative wedding certificate, which may also be signed by up to four witnesses if you wish

A beautiful, handmade, hardback copy of your wedding ceremony script

Beautiful, handmade copies of your ceremony, bound in handmade paper and decorated with silk ribbon for you to give to your parents / witnesses etc.
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A walk-through rehearsal with key participants the day before your ceremony (dependent on distance from Sussex*, or by arrangement)​
on the day, I will arrive at least an hour before the ceremony to liaise with the venue, photographer, and any participants (readers, musicians etc.) professional delivery of your bespoke ceremony

Tanya J

Experience:

9 years

Weddings:

25+

We'll talk, online and/or in person, as often as we need. Gradually, between us, we'll build up a plan of everything that will happen - from entrances, to music, to words, to rings, to different symbolic gestures, to where we'll all stand. I'll learn about your life and your values and write a ceremony that tells your story and guides you through making your promises to each other. You'll be in complete control and will always be able to edit or change anything... and, if you want, I can keep bits of it as a surprise for you. We'll often meet up at the venue the day before to check everything's ok. And then, of course, I'll come on the day with my best speaking voice and conduct proceedings!

Ewan

Experience:

13 years

Weddings:

100+

My fee includes meeting with you both to plan your ceremony, writing and delivering the ceremony, and giving you a pdf keepsake copy after the ceremony, when you have some photos to share. If a rehearsal is required, that is also included in the fee.

Louise

Experience:

5 years

Weddings:

10+